What I tell you three times is true
I guess the best thing about being an agony aunt on a large and chaotic forum system is that one will come up with better and batter ways to say things. This version kinda went over well; I have been talking a lot about the disconnect between the terms “Dom” and “sub” and the things [...]
IDK BDSM
I just read a kink bingo story about a malvolent goddess who whips a guy just for ages because she feels like it. And when she stops she tells him that he should be grateful to her for stopping, and he is. So, okay, malevolent goddesses like to slap people around. Evidently, it gives them [...]
Tags: bdsm, hetero creepitude, i like men dont i
I’ll be working this out for a long time still
Regarding BDSM, and the way that Dom/Sub seems to have become the default dynamics description. I think this is very problematic. BDSM encompasses a large range of activities alongside the mental and emotional activities, and many people who are more interested in the physical stuff are getting–seriously– shaming messages that they are not Dominant, or [...]
so, I went to the ‘Ladies Who are Dominant’ munch yesterday…
My second time. I think the Lady who leads them is adorable, what can I say? The Ladies like to invite speakers, and this one was an Old Guard leatherman, who talked about the history of leather traditions, the history of his group Avatar, the history of gay and BDSM persecution in Los Angeles specifically, [...]
Tags: bdsm, gay rights, gender, munch report, thinky thoughts
bar night report
Well-attended, maybe fifty people mostly lesbians, I think– it was funny watching the male regular’s faces as they walked in. Sooooooooo Younnnnngggg… babydykes are cute, no argument, but soooo younnnnggg… No leather to be seen The femme/androgynous couple that set up the night are artsy, fetishy, mid-20′s, and comfortably queer. They want more of a [...]
Wthout naming names…
One of the Destined Youth types of the Los Angeles jazz scene is doodling around on Mr. Omega’s accoustic gittar. He’s one of Wolf’s school chums, and there’s a small bunch of the critters hanging out in the back porch this summer evening . it’s just fabulous. In other news, i was talking about how [...]
Her woods, Her Pleasure
An early story, 1994. When I wrote it, to speak about the mud, the pond, the grass, and the sexual feelings they aroused in me seemed almost impossible, making my hands sweat on the word processor keys. On the other hand, one man– sensitive enough– wondered where the action was; Hardcore, it seems, is in [...]
The Baroness’s Boy
Griff was on her way to the showers. She was wearing her boots, chaps and harness — and a fair amount of mud. Damp earth streaked her normally immaculate leather. Mud decorated all of her body that was left bare. All the important parts were. Her ass still stung deliciously from the spanking she’d just [...]
Tags: -dykesex, bdsm, bondagesex, gender, Oak and Ash, outsidesex
