bdsm

Apr 052013
 
Top. dom. sub. bottom. And the differences between them. AKA "Stella's usual rant."

Note: Our society has become very enamored of the concept of Dom and Sub. Many people come into the lifestyle without ever hearing that any other dynamic can exist, which is why I have written this little essay. I do not wish to give the impression that you or anyone else are restricted to one or

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Jun 152011
 
IDK BDSM

I just read a kink bingo story about a malvolent goddess who whips a guy just for ages because she feels like it. And when she stops she tells him that he should be grateful to her for stopping, and he is. So, okay, malevolent goddesses like to slap people around. Evidently, it gives them

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 Posted June 15, 2011  Tagged with: , ,
Jun 142011
 
I'll be working this out for a long time still

Regarding BDSM, and the way that Dom/Sub seems to have become the default dynamics description. I think this is very problematic. BDSM encompasses a large range of activities alongside the mental and emotional activities, and many people who are more interested in the physical stuff are getting–seriously– shaming messages that they are not Dominant, or

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 Posted June 14, 2011  Tagged with: , ,
Jun 242010
 
bar night report

Well-attended, maybe fifty people mostly lesbians, I think– it was funny watching the male regular’s faces as they walked in. Sooooooooo Younnnnngggg… babydykes are cute, no argument, but soooo younnnnggg… No leather to be seen The femme/androgynous couple that set up the night are artsy, fetishy, mid-20’s, and comfortably queer. They want more of a

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 Posted June 24, 2010  Tagged with: , , ,
Jun 212010
 
Wthout naming names...

One of the Destined Youth types of the Los Angeles jazz scene is doodling around on Mr. Omega’s accoustic gittar. He’s one of Wolf’s school chums, and there’s a small bunch of the critters hanging out in the back porch this summer evening . it’s just fabulous. In other news, i was talking about how

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 Posted June 21, 2010  Tagged with: , ,
May 272008
 

An early story, 1994. When I wrote it, to speak about the mud, the pond, the grass, and the sexual feelings they aroused in me seemed almost impossible, making my hands sweat on the word processor keys. On the other hand, one man– sensitive enough– wondered where the action was; Hardcore, it seems, is in

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 Posted May 27, 2008  Tagged with: , , , ,
May 272008
 

Griff was on her way to the showers. She was wearing her boots, chaps and harness — and a fair amount of mud. Damp earth streaked her normally immaculate leather. Mud decorated all of her body that was left bare. All the important parts were. Her ass still stung deliciously from the spanking she’d just

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 Posted May 27, 2008  Tagged with: , , , , ,
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