IDK BDSM
I just read a kink bingo story about a malvolent goddess who whips a guy just for ages because she feels like it. And when she stops she tells him that he should be grateful to her for stopping, and he is.
So, okay, malevolent goddesses like to slap people around. Evidently, it gives them great pleasure. You can tell by the thin, cruel smiles.
That’s how malevolence works. I guess.
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On that other forum of mine, I used to get PMs from guys. They wanted me to Domme (de dom dom dommmm…) them, by which they meant force them to suck cock and take it up the buttski and turn them into cocksucking sluts for my pleasure.
(Funny thing, since I drew a mustache on my face, I get a lot less of that.)
Eventually, I started asking them what, exactly, would "my pleasure" be in this scenario? Some guys gave me very honest answers– they didn’t really know, they admitted it was their fantasy, and what they really wanted was a woman to enable them– some guys said they hoped Herself was a vengeful woman who hated men. Why? I asked those men. I never, once got any further PM’s from those guys. Are we surprised?
The most recent reply;
ETA: I got a lovely response just now:
And I think I get what you mean, anything I want done to me is because, mainly, She likes it. Secondly, I like it. If she doesn’t enjoy it, there’s no point in doing it. So I’d love to be treated that way, and made to do things I wouldn’t normally do, if she enjoys it. That’s always the goal. It would really send me over the edge if she came while watching me get fucked up the ass, or suck a big fat one.
Boys talk crude like that, sorry slashers. Crude or not, he does seem to have an actual sense of submission. Pity I have hardly no sense of Domination…
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