Cross Dressing
I went to a High Tea today. The rule is: Ladies are guests, men serve. Naked, shaven, and focused ONLY on serving tea. The hostess wanted me to come as a guest, but was worried that it would be insensitive to ask me to be a girl… But as it happens, I thought– why not [...]
Fetish Boots, Stella Style
They come from Gasolina. They are nearly handmade. They make me wet. That is all.
So Wendy O Williams,
Was she a Liberated Woman or just another mostly-naked Punk Princess on a stage? A young man of my acquaintance thinks the former. Me, I’m not so sure. Shaking your black leather butt-floss while you sing of death and mayhem isn’t particularly subversive– not even back in the day, as I recall. But maybe I’m [...]
regarding the Big GLBT YA callout:
Background: In a guest blog two writers talked about an unfortunate incident in which a prospective agent asked them to remove a gay characater from their YA novel: say yes To GayYA they were careful to name no names, because they wanted to talk- not about that particular incident, but about how common such incidents [...]
Kink bingo! because, original fic! I got some!
Lots of goodies, man. I Might be able to actually DO EET this year. Got some good ones! Mechanical! writing on the body, orgies and decadence…
Thyroid problems
Wow. I know that I have been taking my thyroid medication unevenly. In fact, i know how much of an understatement that is.Like… sometimes I forget to take it all for a week, which is why my last prescription, which was for one month, lasted me for three months. I didn’t think I could function [...]
What I tell you three times is true
I guess the best thing about being an agony aunt on a large and chaotic forum system is that one will come up with better and batter ways to say things. This version kinda went over well; I have been talking a lot about the disconnect between the terms “Dom” and “sub” and the things [...]
Grammar Ouchies!
DEAR WELL-SEASONED SLASH WRITER: I could have loved your recent Spander; you are a helluva storyteller. But your grammar made it difficult to read comfortably. Please, get control of your punctuation. Half of your commas are placed where no comma belongs, and the other half are missing from the places they should be. Come on [...]
Well, there’s your trouble, then
There is a difference between what many women want, and expect, from BDSM– and byt BDSM I mean the whole kit and kaboodle of acronyms that describe WIITWD– and what many men want– and presumably, expect. The disparity can be summed up, I think, by these two excerpts. One is a BDSM erotic Romance, and [...]
